When my son was six, he had a poster sticky-tacked to his bedroom wall. The baseball player wore red, white, and blue and displayed the perfect swing as his bat hit the ball.
But, why do I remember the poster today?
Because I’m tired.
And negative thoughts try to overshadow all the good things. So, it’s time for a mental re-set. To reflect on the whirlwind that blew through the past six weeks and to see the good among the difficult.
To focus, I make a list:
- Sent book manuscript to publisher!
- Walked through a sudden and scary family crisis
- Moved two of my favorite people and a geriatric cat into our home
- Fixed water problem in basement after days of multiple fans and countless wet towels
- Made three road trips to celebrate birthdays
- Attended a July 4th party with extended family members we haven’t hugged since 2019
- Dealt with some more sticky family issues including one who struggles to stay clean and sober
- Despite rain, rocked the 3rd annual “Christmas in July” with kids and grandkids
- Survived a camping trip with six grandbabies and made great memories
- Attempted to fix a broken washer
- Waited for delivery x 11 days for new washer, damaged upon delivery
- Ordered another washer, waiting on delivery … 🙂
But the question remains:
Why am I thinking about that darn poster sticky-tacked to a wall thirty years ago?
Because at the end of this exhausting list, I smile and remember the words printed on the poster:
“I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.” ~ Philippians 4:13
That, my friend, is how we get through. All things.
All things scary, frustrating, and stressful. All the things that stretch us right alongside all the things that bless us.
Each day, we wake not knowing exactly what’s ahead. But God is already there. And we know we’ll have opportunities to rely on the gifts of His Spirit in us. Love, peace, patience, joy, faithfulness, kindness, gentleness, and self-control.*
Therein, our weakness becomes strength. We not only overcome negative thoughts, we accomplish way more than we think we can.
One day at a time. One prayer at a time. Maybe even one list at a time.
Are your thoughts focused on the mess-ups and mishaps? Make a list to re-set your mind on what you’ve accomplished—all the hard-won victories. Thank God for His presence and provision in your life.
Then, my friend, take a nap.
Peace for your journey ☮💗
*Galatians 5:22-23
Carol Remrey says
Today will not last forever..is what I think…this too shall pass…tomorrow is a new day…learn & Process yesterday….Good lord, it has taken some time to get here..but I am here nonetheless… I think of my friend Robin and she always puts a smile on my face. You are someone I cherish love and believe in. Love ya Girlfriend!
Robin Melvin says
Hi Carol! Yes! Those thoughts help me too. It does take a long time but we are doing it, my friend. We are choosing Joy and abundant life. Love You. ☮💗
Shelley Bethea says
Thanks Robin! A great reminder.
Robin Melvin says
Hi Shelley! I’m so blessed to hear from you. ☮💗
Wendy says
Thank you for that reminder. And I’m going to make a list 😊
Robin Melvin says
Hi Wendy! I need to make a list again too. Peace to you, my friend ☮️